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November 25, 2011
While eating your turkey and pumpkin pie left-overs today, here are some terrific articles to boost your creativity, rise above your writing fears, be encouraged in marketing your novel, and keep on keeping on!
Fourth week pep talk from a published author who uses NaNoWriMo in his own unique way–four great lessons learned here.
Blogs may be easy for nonfiction writers, but what about novelists? What is there to blog about? See this article on 13 Blog Post Ideas for Novelists.
Week three pep talk on how to keep going, knowing when to quit, and more.
Oh what to do about our writer’s fears? The title says it all! [I had read this before and got just as much out of reading it again. It's a good one to mark and re-read occasionally.]
As I said on Wednesday, this holiday weekend would be a good time to think ahead to your 2012 writing goals. The articles above will give you good things to consider. I’m excited to be heading into the new year with you!
May 19, 2010
A few weeks ago in “Find a Need and Fill It” I asked for your input concerning the topics you find most helpful in this blog.
Thank you all for the responses! It’s been very helpful. The requests fell into three main categories. Since I blog on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays, that made it easy for me. From now on, this will be my general blogging schedule so that I can cover each topic area regularly.
What You Can Expect
Monday = Inner Motivation (includes:)
- fears–all kinds!
- discipline
- focus
- goals
- rejection
- lack of motivation
- encouragement
- a writer’s dream life
- procrastination
- working with our “inner editor”
- enjoying writing more
- perseverance
- creative inspiration
- writer’s block
Wednesday = Outer Challenges (includes:)
- setting boundaries
- time management
- distractions
- discipline
- writing schedules
- goal setting
- balancing writing with chaos in life
- balancing day jobs with writing
- our writing needs (vs. “their” needs)
- self-defeating behaviors
Friday = Tips ‘n’ Tricks of the Trade (includes:)
- specific genre help
- writing books I’ve found helpful
- blogs I find useful
- classes I’ve taken
- voice (writer’s and character’s)
- critique groups
- conferences
- working with publishers
- marketing–all kinds
- considering the audience when writing
- dealing with publishers who don’t respond
- finding good markets
- developing depth in writing
- selling “unique” pieces instead of jumping on the bandwagon
Thanks for Your Input
All your feedback has been immensely helpful in organizing future blog posts and making sure I cover topics you want to hear about and find useful. If I missed anything on these lists, feel free to let me know!
March 1, 2010
If you’re a Jane Austen fan like me, don’t miss a fabulous opportunity that will only last until March 14.
You might not be able to travel to her home in England, but for the next two weeks you can experience Austen’s manuscripts, letters, a movie and other treasures from the comfort of your computer.
A Rare Opportunity
“A Woman’s Wit: Jane Austen’s Life and Legacy” is an exhibition at New York City’s Morgan Library & Museum. They have more than 100 works by Austen. Until March 14, the Morgan has assembled an extensive online component to accompany the exhibition.
You can view on your computer the film The Divine Jane, in which artists and scholars describe Austen’s lasting significance.
You can also examine a digital facsimile of the manuscript itself of Austen’s novel, Lady Susan, plus some of her handwritten notes.
Don’t Delay
To enjoy Jane’s movie, letters and manuscripts, first make some tea and scones. Then visit the Jane Austen exhibition online at The Morgan.
February 26, 2010
Some days I feel about as creative as a cement block. Most of us know, however, that we can’t wait to feel creative before we write.
Writers who wait for inspiration before they decide to write are generally known as hobbyists. Working writers-those actively writing and growing in their craft-must write whether the muse is “in” or not.
“Which means, essentially,” James Scott Bell says, “you have to become a walking idea factory.” And he really does mean walking. He said he gets a lot of his ideas for his current work-in-progress when walking. I know other writers who’ve said the same thing.
Dragging My Heels
I love to walk-but I have usually balked at this kind of “work while you walk” advice. After working at my desk, I want a break. And mulling over my novel while taking a walk doesn’t do a darned thing to refresh me. My brain is too tired. When I walk, I want to listen to a book on tape, something Jane Austen-y that I know will feed my soul. Thinking about my own novel just feels like more work to me.
But…that’s not what Bell recommends! In his The Art of War for Writers, he says that after a writing session, “I try to take an hour walk every day and listen to an audio book.” Inevitably his muse or imagination (what he calls “the boys in the basement”) sends up ideas for his work-in-progress while he’s listening to his audio book for relaxation. When that happens, he stops, makes a note in the pocket notebook he carries, then goes back to his audio book and walks some more.
He calls this his system for “being creative without thinking about it. That way you can be ‘working’ on your idea even when you’re not working on it.”
Then What?
For several days I tried Bell’s system. I hadn’t expected it to work-but it did! While walking and listening to Pride and Prejudice on my MP3 player, my brain released a good number of ideas-things that I could later develop (a secondary character’s flaw, a plot twist that would also show the book’s theme, a better setting for the climax scene). I have to admit that I was very surprised how well this worked.
If you want to try it, here are Bell’s steps for becoming a walking idea factory.
- Focus fully on your book or story idea during your writing time.
- Take a walk and relax, then capture the ideas that pop up during your walk.
- Back home, immediately put your recorded bits in a computer file. Expand on them, brainstorm the ideas, follow rabbit trails. Do that with each idea that popped up on your walk.
- Let the ideas cool for a day and then come back to them for assessment.
- Decide which ideas to keep and use in your current work. Set the others aside for another project.
Bell says if you get used to thinking this way, your creativity will explode!
February 10, 2010
According to the National Science Foundation, the average person has about 12,000 thoughts per day, or 4.4 million thoughts per year.
I wager that writers are well above the average because we read more and writing causes us to think more than the average.
Who’s In Charge?
I had known for a long time that our thoughts affect our emotions, and that toxic “stinking thinking” could derail our writing dreams and health faster than almost anything. You are the only one who can decide whether to reject or accept a thought, which thoughts to dwell on, and which thoughts will become actions.
But sometimes–a lot of the time–I felt powerless to actually do anything about it on a consistent basis. Sometimes I simply felt unfocused and overwhelmed.
Need a Brain Detox?
I’ve been reading a “scientific brain studies” book for non-science types like me called Who Switched Off My Brain? by Dr. Caroline Leaf Ph.D. which has fascinated me. With scientific studies to back it up, it shows that thoughts are measurable and actually occupy mental “real estate.” Thoughts are active; they grow and change, influencing every decision we make and physical reaction we have.
“Every time you have a thought, it is actively changing your brain and your body–for better or for worse.” The author talks about the “Dirty Dozen”–which can be as harmful as poison in our minds and our bodies.
Killing Our Creativity
Among this dozen deadly areas of toxic thinking are toxic emotions, toxic words, toxic seriousness, toxic health, and toxic schedules.
If you want to delve into the 350+ scientific references and pages of end notes in the back of the book, you can look up the studies. But basically it targets the twelve toxic areas of our lives that produce 80% of the physical, emotional and mental health issues today. And trust me. Those issues have a great deal to do with you achieving your goals and dreams.
There Is Hope!
According to Dr. Leaf, scientists no longer believe that the brain is hardwired from birth with a fixed destiny to wear out with age, a fate predetermined by our genes. Instead there is scientific proof now for what the Bible has always taught: you can renew your minds and heal. Your brain really can change!
Old brain patterns can be altered, and new patterns can be implemented.
In the coming days, I’ll share some more about the author’s ”Brain Sweep” five-step strategy for detoxing your thoughts associated with the “dirty dozen.”
But right now I’m going to read about the symptoms of a toxic schedule. I have a suspicion…
February 5, 2010
Even the most dedicated writers need a break sometimes. The brain gives out (often on Fridays), or the back and neck scream for relief. Sure, you can always read more email or surf the web or watch a re-run.
On the other hand, says Arthur Plotnik in a February, 2010 article in The Writer, “Take a productive break from writing.”
His definition of such a productive break includes “activities that can bolster my writing even as they give respite from its grind…A boost [to my writing] in quality or quantity is my criterion for ‘positive’ avoidances.”
Good for Your Writing
Time-wasting breaks produce guilt for not writing, leaving us feeling disgruntled at the end of the day. On the other hand, a break taken to bolster our writing skills is both refreshing and growth-producing. And guilt free!
Read Plotnik’s entire article for many more unusual ideas. (He’s the author of Spunk & Bite: A Writer’s Guide to Bold, Contemporary Style and is on The Writer‘s editorial board.) Here are just a few of his suggestions to whet your appetite for the next time you just have to get away from your desk:
- Talk a walk in your neighborhood as if seeing it for the first time. In your pocket notebook, jot down images and sensory perceptions and things you overhear and character descriptions.
- Visit a botanical garden, aquarium, museum, zoo, etc. where things are displayed and labeled. Collect metaphors based on the things you see, such as “a roommate like a stinkhorn fungus.” (Plotnick)
- Wander through your local library’s exhibits, and look through community bulletin boards and local history collections for ideas.
- Watch a “dopey adolescent sitcom” to update one’s YA-dialogue skills.
- Play an instrument or do a drawing.
- Build your inventory of character names from a directory.
- Spend time with someone in an interesting occupation, absorbing the details of a job one of your characters might perform.
Or do like me-and catch up on reading inspiring magazines like The Writer!
October 16, 2009
A year ago, I urged you to sign up for the free Muse Online Writer’s Conference. It’s been running this week, October 12-18, and my brain is over-stuffed at the moment. (Next time I won’t sign up for 28 different workshops!)
I’ve attended lectures on voice, overcoming creative blocks, writing tight, plot points and tension, enjoyed Q & A with agents and editors, pitched my middle-grade novel to an agent and got a “go ahead,” and so much more. Forums contain lecture notes and assignments, plus postings of lessons with feedback. The handouts were especially good, and I have a small binder full.
It was also especially helpful to me this year for health reasons to be able to sit in my good office chair, sleep in my own bed, eat my own food, and get up and walk around when necessary. I Skyped with a writer friend a couple of times this week (who was also “attending” the conference via her computer.) Discussing some of the workshops was helpful.
Don’t Miss Out!
It’s been a full week, and admittedly I got behind on the assignments. Next year, if I’m lucky enough to get one of the 1,000+ spots available, I will have to be more selective. I was, admittedly, like a kid in a candy store–where the chocolate was all free!
There are so many wonderful things about the Muse conference, and directors Lea Schizas and Carolyn Howard-Johnson are to be commended for the tremendous amount of work they’ve done to give writers this chance. I’ll let you know when it’s time to sign up for next year’s conference. You don’t want to miss this opportunity.
July 20, 2009
On Friday I wrote about refusing to give up and pushing through obstacles if you really believe in a writing project. Over the weekend, I read a story in Joyce Meyer’s Never Give Up! book about how the Brooklyn Bridge came to be. It was news to me–and it was accomplished by two men (father and son) who believed in the dream when all others laughed at them.
Double Tragedy
But that wasn’t all. The father was killed when the project was only a few months underway. Three years later the son was injured, suffering brain damage that left him unable to walk, talk or even move–EXCEPT one finger. He worked out a system of communication with his wife using that one finger.
Over the course of eleven years, he used his one finger to give his wife instructions to pass along to the bridge builders. The bridge was finally completed in 1883. (If you’re interested, you can read the entire inspirational story and see more photos and historical facts about this amazing feat.)
Most of us haven’t encountered discouragement or setbacks of this magnitude in our writing lives. Let’s keep things in perspective. Usually we’re battling disappointment or trouble getting started or lack of family support. Next time you feel like quitting because the writing life has become difficult, remember the builders of the Brooklyn Bridge.