August 19, 2011

Back in March, I wrote about pruning some things from life in order to have more time to write. (See my former post “The ‘Not To-Do’ List”.)

In order to make time for anything new in your life, it requires some necessary endings.

Help Is on the Way

So I was thrilled yesterday when my son-in-law loaned me a book by a favorite author of mine (Henry Cloud of Boundaries fame). It’s called Necessary Endings. It’s the best “how-to” on this “pruning” subject I’ve ever seen. It covers both personal/relationships and business. [Remember: if you're a writer, you're in business.]

I don’t know about you, but I have difficulty cutting things out of my life–even when doctors say, “Cut back or die!” (or the equivalent). This book has already helped me identify more clearly what needs to go. And, as Cloud shows, it all starts with having a clear idea of what you’re pruning toward (your goal or vision.) Only when you know that can you know what/who has to go.

Free Resources

You can download a free chapter from Necessary Endings called “Pruning: Growth Depends on Getting Rid of the Unwanted or the Superfluous.” Go to Facebook, do a search for “Henry Cloud (author)”, and you’ll find it. Just click the “Like” link, and you’ll have access to the free chapter and dozens of excellent short videos he’s posted.

Also, in the “Notes” section of his Facebook page, you’ll find a group study starting today on how to do this whole process of “necessary endings” in work, relationships, outside interests, and everything else (even good things) that keep us from being able to pursue the best things.

5 Comments »

1. 

   Thanks for some great resources today!

   Comment by MaDonna — August 19, 2011 @ 8:41 pm

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   You’re welcome, MaDonna!

   Comment by Kristi Holl — August 20, 2011 @ 12:01 pm

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   LOL! Since I have been chopping with abandon, this is great! However, put Henry Cloud in the search in FB, came up as quite a few listings (like button all) but no commentary on which page precisely you were referring too – (I did get to see the Amazon page and a news release!) More hints? Like the one that 7000 people like, or a certain avatar? Thanks! Any details appreciated!

   Comment by jen — August 21, 2011 @ 4:28 am

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   Jen, I’m sorry–I thought I had put this in the post. I only saw one “Henry Cloud author” listing, but it’s the one with about 7,500 “likes”.

   Comment by Kristi Holl — August 22, 2011 @ 11:51 am

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